“Does anybody know how
to explain love and what it feels like if you think it is TRUE LOVE?”
I have a mix of thoughts about love. Love, I mean towards your so-called soul mate or partner or significant other. I don’t think you just trip on this blog and be directed in this post if what you mean to find is something else not related about love. We always have a say in this matter. I want to take this topic from shallow to deep. No one can actually claim as an expert in this but just so you know, when it comes to love it’s always worth a try even in just explaining it. So what if you stumble and fall… just make sure you learn from it.
Love is an action not just a feeling. It should be acted upon not just very well said. This underlying sensation has a paramount importance to all of us. No creature can live without it. To fully understand its vagueness, one should read carefully between the lines.
It’s more than just pulse racing and face flushing. It’s concretely abstract. You might not see it but you’ll surely feel it. But still that doesn’t add to the reason why love is blind. Love isn’t blind, people can see yet we tend to tone down the emotions as it passes by before our eyes for fear of what may come to pass. (They might end up filling a barrel of tears). Life is all about risk and it requires you to jump. Love is no different. Don’t be a person who couldn’t settle down and just thinking on things they would have done, or could have had. Indeed, its complication can lead to our own destruction. It’s hard but we have to try to handle its intensity with both our heart and mind. Your mind shouldn’t be outsmarted by your heart, for its beating knows no limit and that makes it a fool. Still, like I said, it’s always worth a try.
For me, True Love is achieved. You have to work on love when you intend for a lifetime commitment. It’s not about letting go, but more like holding on to each other whatever cruelty life may offer and staying happy despite life’s diversity. It’s not something you suffer from but something you would cherish every thought of that certain someone you really cared about more than yourself knowing they’d be there too. It’s a feeling of contentment with the simple things between you two. And yes, you never get tired of it.
Anything is possible. I hate to admit it but like everything else in this world, the only thing that’s constant is change. Maybe eventually, not that it should come to pass, but no matter how deep your love can offer…and the other doesn’t need it. That’s when you have to learn to let go. Because you see, what more could you offer when he doesn’t even want the best thing you have given? But we never really learn, do we?
This isn’t really the whole deal about love. It’s only my own take on the latter.
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